“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”
– Nelson Mandela
Do you find yourself judging people sometimes? If the answer is no, then you might be from outer space. Just kidding. We’re human, therefore it is normal to judge. We judge people within the first 10 seconds we see someone for the first time, and those 10 seconds can make you or break you.
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Judging is completely normal, but it has a certain limit. You don’t have to like every person you meet. If you feel like you don’t like someone then be friendly and keep your distance. Judging, however, goes to far if it gets to the point where it is hurting someone else’s body or feelings. Instead of showing this person that you like them, which will only take you to an argument or even a fight, try to accept and live in peace with them. You don’t have to become best friends. It is just a matter of respect and love. Try to judge as little as you can, and start loving as much as possible. It will always lead you the right way.