If you want something in life, don’t wait for it to come to you. TAKE IT. Work for it, believe and TRUST in yourself. You don’t need anyone to believe in you but yourself. You can accomplish everything if you know that you can.
Today, we want to give you an opportunity to take any pressure off of your life with those three words: ALL IS WELL.
We often compare ourselves to the people around us and we only see the things that others have that we don’t. “He’s driving an expensive car, and I have to ride the subway every day.” or “She’s got a fancy new dress which i will never be able to afford.” might be your thoughts.
The good news is: You don’t need all that to be happy.
You may face times where it looks like everything’s going terribly. Nothing works out for you or even worse: you lost your job or a loved one.
It is hard and it is ok to be sad. But see every new day as a gift to start something new. Lost your job? Today’s a new day and a great opportunity to find better one.
You never know what life has in store for you, so take each day as a gift!
If you are not happy where you are at the moment, then change your situation. You are not a tree – you can move. Even if that means moving from city to city, it is YOUR life and YOU have to be happy in the end. Things may get a little rough in the beginning and no one said it is going to be easy.
But you know what? There is one thing that is even worse than all those things: REGRET.
If you have this dream, then chase it. No matter what. Knowing that you tried and failed is a lot less painful than knowing you didn’t even give it a shot just because someone didn’t like your idea.
If you have dreams for your life, then chase them regardlessly of what everyone else says, because you don’t want to regret the things you could’ve done and the opportunities you could’ve taken.
Question: You can either meet original Beyoncé or you meet someone who covered her songs on YouTube. Who would you choose to meet?
You can choose any artists or movie stars that come to your mind, and still you would go for the ORIGINAL person, someone who’s special and there’s no one quite like them. Right?
Related: There’s no one like you
The copy is never as good as the original and why would you wanna be a copy anyway? You already are the original masterpiece of art and there is no one like you. Not a single person!
No one has your beautiful smile, no one has your good heart and no one talks like you do. Sounds pretty awesome, right?
Therefore, always be yourself, because you are wonderful the way you are.
“No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.”
– Nelson Mandela
Do you find yourself judging people sometimes? If the answer is no, then you might be from outer space. Just kidding. We’re human, therefore it is normal to judge. We judge people within the first 10 seconds we see someone for the first time, and those 10 seconds can make you or break you.
Related: How to become a happy person
Judging is completely normal, but it has a certain limit. You don’t have to like every person you meet. If you feel like you don’t like someone then be friendly and keep your distance. Judging, however, goes to far if it gets to the point where it is hurting someone else’s body or feelings. Instead of showing this person that you like them, which will only take you to an argument or even a fight, try to accept and live in peace with them. You don’t have to become best friends. It is just a matter of respect and love. Try to judge as little as you can, and start loving as much as possible. It will always lead you the right way.
Are you struggling to make a decision about something? Not sure if you’re doing the right thing?
Then you should stop listening to what everyone else thinks you should do and start listening to your heart! This is essential if you want to find your personal happiness, because no one in this world knows better what you need and moreover what makes you happy.
If you make mistakes that’s fine – you will learn from the things that went wrong and grow upon the new knowledge.
So if you find yourself to be unhappy or uncomfortable, ask yourself WHY you feel this way. Get rid of everything that makes you blue – and listen to that inner voice speaking to you – it might be your heart! You are not supposed to please anyone – because everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness, not you! Make yourself your high priority and listen to your heart!